Meet new friends in the other world Yes, there are other avenues where you can build friendships. Another world of active people is available for you to find friends. It’s not the world after death. In fact, this world is full of life. It is open for you 24/7. The Internet offers a lot of options you can choose from to meet new friend and get connected with them. They might not be as strong as friendships in the real world, but it surely is an exciting opportunity to make friends with different people all around the globe.
You just have to explore it and potential friends everywhere you can get along with well. In this modern world today, it would be alright to assume that you have already a lot of experiences surfing the internet. With this, you have surely experienced making friends online already. The fact is that they are everywhere. You can always meet them online and start building good friendship with them.
Social networking sites are now widely used to get connected with people all around the globe. Hence, you get the chance to meet new people and befriend then in the easiest and most convenient way. The most popular networking sites are Facebook, Twitter, MySpace and many more. You don’t need to know these people by names. The friends of your friends can help you get connected with new people fast.
Also, these sites are providing you friend suggestions. So, you don’t really have to worry much. Indeed, these are the best places for you to interact with people who have same interests as you do. You get to learn from them and relate to their likes as wells as dislikes. What make these sites more interesting is that they allow you to view the profiles of your newly met friends. By this, you will be able to grasp a glimpse of their lives and background.
When you like their profiles, you can send them an invite. It’s up to them to accept your invitation or reject it. But most of the times, your invitations get accepted easily. Enjoy adding friends and get them on your list. Blogging is also an effective way to earn friends online. Your blogs commonly contains your personal thoughts over things and all other ideas you wish to post in your blog. Well, readers can read your postings. When people like your blogs, they will start following you in any posts you create.
Reading your writings will be followed by them commenting on your written topics. Then, commenting will progress to talking to you more often using other means as well. By that, you can make friends with them using your own blogs. The good thing about blogs is that the people you meet really like your writings. Hence, getting them like you as well will be easier and more convincing. Another means of getting connected with people is through YouTube marketing.
It is already a popular now and it allows people to go to you directly when they are interested in your video. All you have to do is post a video that will catch their attention and eventually come back to you for more. Indeed, you can have a lot of options to choose from in meeting new friends in the internet. The more you use it, the more likely you will find ways to get connected with different people all around the globe.
You will be amazed at how it is possible to befriend a lot of people whom you don’t even know by name. Furthermore, you can learn from them a lot of things and they might even be of help to you in any way they can. You too can influence them. However, it will require you more effort to accomplish that since you don’t know each other that much. Anyway, don’t count the effort you make, count the friends you are able to have instead.
Friendships online is different
The friendships you are able to build online are different form the friendships you have with people you physical interact daily. This is because they are coming from different face of the earth. Your religions and traditions are not the same. Your beliefs are different. Your perspectives differ largely. More likely, you do not have something in common. Because of this, it will be harder for you to mingle with easily. You really need to work on it.
It doesn’t happen in an instant. But, you can do something to bridge the gap. Another thing is that you have never seen these people personally. They may have pictures in their profiles, but their pictures do not necessarily give the whole idea of who they are. You don’t have any knowledge on how they think about so many things; how they react, perhaps; what they hate; what they like most; there are still a lot more things you don’t know about them.
So, you need to be careful and it will take you an extra mile to get things well with them. Also, trust is difficult to build in the online environment. Nowadays, a lot of people are already using the internet to promote bad and immoral things. You don’t know 100% if the person you are trying to make friends with is noble and sincere in the intention of making friends with you.
You don’t know the back of their minds. Thus, it makes a whole lot different case meeting with people in the real world. Of course, it’s not only you who finds it hard to trust. They too are keeping themselves a little reserved to ensure their safety as well. They do not know if your intentions are really good. They still need to find it out for themselves.
Mostly, when you are making friends through the internet, both of you tend to communicate more in the general way. This happens because of the trust issue that is creating the gap between you. It is normal and it does make sense. You have to understand them the way they also understand your side. It might be difficult at first. But once you have gained their trust as well as them getting your trust, creating a sincere friendship will make itself through.
Excerpted from the book Friends.
This excerpt has been edited and condensed for clarity.
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