Consciously or unconsciously, you are creating your life and the environment around you with your thought process. This simple principle is known as the Law of Attraction. There are several spiritual laws about creating a life and the environment around you. Be aware that it is extremely important to understand the true concept of reality and how you can mold reality to bring positivity into your life. Many people tend to misuse the Law of Attraction and then start asking why they did not get what they wanted. People usually misuse the Law of Attraction rather than surrendering to a larger purpose in their life.
Focus on the positives
The most common misuse of the Law of Attraction often includes focusing on the things lacking in your life. You must always ensure that you acknowledge the good things in your life rather than focusing on the things lacking in your life which results in the misuse of the Law of Attraction. If you are single and wish to find a life partner and you wish to use the Law of Attraction to find a life partner you must start by asking yourself about how you are as a person.
Are you grateful for all the good things in your life, do you find yourself trustworthy and lovable? If you answer in the positive to all these questions you will find a life partner with the help of the Law of Attraction and if you answer the questions by finding that you feel miserable and lonely without a life partner you might end up attracting the wrong person. Misuse of the Law of Attraction can also happen by not being consistent and clear about what you want.
There are many people who know what they do not want but they are rarely clear about what they actually want. In case you find yourself with conflicting views about what you want, you will be misusing the Law of Attraction. Using the same example above, if you desire a life partner on one day, yet on other days you say that you do not wish to get into a relationship because you are too busy or you're not inclined to make emotional investment you are actually confusing your thought process which might backfire in the form of fatal attraction.
Hence, it is imperative that you remain consistent and clear in what you want. Often determining what you want involves exploration of the things that bring true happiness into your life. For this, you must be able to surrender yourself to a larger purpose in life which will help you find what you truly desire in your life. For example if you have recently experienced a break up you can start by rebuilding your life, nourishing and nurturing yourself till such time you are ready to enter into a new relationship. After this you can start looking out for new partners and find the right life partner. However, you must ensure that you do not focus on the negative lacking part of the desire.
Clearing out the clutter in your mind
In case you are constantly bombarded with negative thoughts such as feelings of anxiety, stress, nervousness, jealousy and even inferiority, you will start observing negative reality in your life. This is because as stated by the Law of Attraction your thought process is the magnet which attracts subsequent reality into your life.
If your thought process is positive with positive feelings such as love, peace and joy, you will find positive reality in your life. Negative thought process can attract negative reality which could often lead to depression or misuse of the Law of Attraction.
Clear the clutter
To experience the effectiveness of the Law of Attraction and to bring positivity into your life, you must be able to clear the clutter from your mind to allow positive thoughts to grow. For this you must understand that any thought when provided attention will multiply into more thoughts. Thus, if you think positively, the positive thoughts will multiply resulting in you attracting positivity into your life. The fuel for any thought process both negative and positive is providing attention to the thought process.
With the attention of thought will simply die back into nothingness from which it was born. You can use this principle to remove the negative thoughts from your mind especially before you start to feel overwhelmed by the negative thought process. Do not provide any attention in case the negative thought arises in your mind and instead divert your attention into a positive activity.
The negative thoughts will starve due to the lack of attention and soon you will find that your mind is filled with positive thoughts which will bring positivity into your life. Lack of attention to any thought process will reduce the momentum of the thought process and diverting your attention from the negative thoughts will create huge spaces between the negative thoughts so that they do not have any power over your life.
Positive thoughts are creative forces and they arise from abundance and love. Your being has abundant capacity to generate positive and creative thoughts which when active can help you clear your mind from the clutter of negative thoughts to transform your mind with conditioned thinking. Initially it might be difficult to starve the negative thought process because each negative thought will seek attention by its very nature. You must try and divert your mind to starve the negative thought of attention and momentum.
Even though it might feel uncomfortable, sometimes even fearful you must avoid paying attention to the negative thoughts. Even if you feel panicked you must remove your attention from you thought process and start doing something positive to allow positive thoughts to multiply in your mind and completely uproot the negative thought process. The most natural way to clear your mind of all the clutter is to allow your awareness to relax. You must open your focus rather than narrowing it which will help positive thoughts multiply.
Excerpted from the book The Law Of Attraction Bible.
This excerpt has been edited and condensed for clarity.
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