In this chapter I will tell you 6 different and easy to implement tips which you can execute and make all of your relationships better.
- Always be positive and look for good in yourself first
- Happiness is unconditional
- Change yourself first and then expect someone to change
- Learn to forgive
- Practice spirituality
- Raise your expectations and start expecting good
You must have seen people who are always very contented with their lives and whenever you ask them, they will tell you that they are going very smooth with all of their relationship and there is minimum amount of stress and anxiety in their lives.
These people are not from heaven instead they are also human beings like you and me but they just have discovered some better ways of living their lives and these ways are so deeply integrated in their lives that you cannot even notice the difference between your and their approach to life. If you can integrate following 6 things in your life style then, your life will become lot better and lot easier that you have ever imagined.
Always be positive and look for good in yourself first
When you start expecting good from other then, you often forget that others are also expecting good form you and if you are not providing them with enough goodness then, you will ultimately get similar things in return. No matter what kind of situation you are in with your relationship but never let the positive edge go and keep trying your best.
If you initiate good response then, you will ultimately get to the positive end of the relationship and will be able to make it stronger and healthier while if you tried form your half heart and you kept some things in your heart then, things will go the other way round and you will be left alone without that relationship.
Happiness Is Unconditional
Some people have this habit of associating their happiness with certain personality or certain event but this is not the way to go and your happiness should be unconditional. There are endless things in life which can create happiness for you. You can ignore so many bad things in life and concentrate on so many positives that it will fill your life with happiness.
Change yourself first and then expect someone to change
This is natural human instinct that he or she tends to see others changing for them. You have the same nature as you always want to impose yourself and your own rules on others. This is the wrong approach because if you want others to change for you then, you should start this process form you and change yourself fort some of your relationships. This will increase your respect in yes of that relation and he or she will also tend to change accordingly.
Learn to forgive
Forgiveness is a great virtue as well as it is a very helpful thing in relationships. If you have this small habit of ignoring small mistakes and forgiving people then, it can help you a lot in making your relationships more concrete and strong.
Most of the break ups and other family problems arise because today’s materialistic life has made us so rigid that we are not ready to give up our ego and forgive anyone. Even I have seen that sometimes the issue is so minor that can be easily forgiven and overlooked but people make a big issue out of a very small deed. This behavior should be corrected and bring some modesty and forgiveness in your attitude.
Practice Spirituality
Spirituality is something which is a necessary ingredient to make relationships stronger. Spirituality is missing from this world and this is the biggest reason that peace calmness and harmony is also missing from our lives.
It is not necessary to believe in certain religion to practice spirituality instead you can practice it through lots of methods for example if you just stop hunting your negative and materialistic desires then, you will get spirituality of one kind and once you achieve that then, you will know that there are so many things which are inter related to those desires and without those desires you can make so many things straight and more realistic in your life.
Raise your expectations and start expecting the good
Expectations are also very important because according to the universal law of attraction when you expect something from your deep heart then, everything around you tries to help you to get that particular thing. This is the way to expect that you always need to make your expectations positive and more appropriate in terms of your relationships too.
Secrets of strong and healthy families
In this chapter I will tell you some basic secrets which you can implement in your family life to make it better and more concrete.
- Important but difficult task
- Avoid mistrust and confusion
- Casual relationships
- Romantic relationships
Secrets
We are born in a bunch of people who are related to us by blood and these people are called our families. These days you can see lots of chaos around you in society and breaking of family system is one of the greatest reasons behind this chaos.
There is no respect in today’s society and everyone is unleashed at his or her own. This situation has only one solution and that is to develop your family moral values and tell your family members that you are human beings with certain limitation in society and you are born to have some responsibilities which you have to take whether you like them or not.
There are certain limitations in family system and family system is known from those limitations. If there are no rules and limitations in your family system and everyone is free to do whatever they want then, you will suffer from some uncertain and unpleasant effects of this freedom.
Excerpted from the book Revive Your Relationships.
This excerpt has been edited and condensed for clarity.
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