In order for you to attain the real essence of personal power perfection, the first thing that you should learn and consider is to know how to love yourself selflessly. Loving yourself is considered as one of the most important factors that you must know and possess. Just like what the bible says “love your neighbors as you love yourself”.
In this phrase, you can understand that you need to love everything around you including yourself. The following are some of the basics on how to start loving your own self to attain the significance of personal power perfection.
The basics on how to start loving yourself
In order to start loving yourself, there are various factors that you should consider to make sure that you will attain the personal power perfection that you deserve to receive. Here are some of the valuable factors that you should follow in order for you to start loving yourself.
Wash out the anger and grief
According to most researches, this is the first factor that you need to follow. In order for you to surpass the first step, you are required to make a journal that contains all the important lists such as:
- Things that you don’t like admire about yourself
- Things that you don’t admire to those individuals who are close to you particularly with those persons to whom you show and boast bitter feelings
- Create a list for those things that you don’t admire about your life.
In this way, you can easily wash out the anger and grief that you are feeling inside. This kind of process is also known as catharis. When you hear the term “catharis”, it simply means that you want to purify yourself until you are completely pure. It is a kind of cleansing process that is highly recommended to clean your soul’s dirt.
Forgive
The next step that you should do is to forgive yourself for all the things that you have done wrong. When you completely forgive yourself, it is the perfect time to forgive other people for the things that they also done to you. In order for you to completely forgive yourself, you need to let go all the bad memories that hurts you in the past and continue a brighter life in the future.
Build positive experiences
To completely start loving yourself, every single day of your life, you are required to make use of your journal. However, at this point of time, you need to write positive things that you admire about yourself. You can also write down good things that you admire with those people who become part of your life.
In this kind of journal, you don’t need to write down negative thoughts about yourself, only the positive one are allowed. Then, after you go to bed, try to read all the positive things that you admire about yourself as well as with those persons that you value most.
In this way, you will feel peace, pure joy and grateful about your achievements. These factors to keep in mind on how to love yourself will serve as your guide in order to obtain the real meaning of personal power perfection.
Treating others with love and respect
According to great saying, “respect yourself will guide your morals and treating others with love and respect will guide your manners”. It is true that relationship with thy self is considered as one of the salient relationships that you need to have. If you love and respect yourself, you will not find a hard time and difficulty to treat others with love and respect too.
In order for you to protect your personal power, you need to love yourself, as well as, it is also important that you also know how to treat others with love and respect that they ought to receive. The following are some of the useful suggestions that you should ponder on to make sure that you will obtain the personal power perfection and the significance of treating others with love and respect.
Useful suggestions in treating others with love and respect
In order for you to easily treat other with love and respect that they deserve to receive, you are recommended to follow these useful suggestions that are stated below. To enable yourself to treat others with love and respect, the most important thing that you need to ponder on is treat yourself in a better way. Learn more about some of the suggestions that are proven effective and work well for you to easily attain the love and respect that you also deserve to have.
Catch yourself
It is not advisable to catch yourself with negative thoughts especially when bad things happen. It is much important to bear in mind that you did your best in fulfilling a certain challenge in life. You don’t need to pressure or blame yourself for unexpected incidents that might come. You need to remember that it is part of life and nothing is impossible if you associate it with passion, perseverance and dedication.
Forgive yourself
As a human being, it is very normal to commit mistakes since you are not perfect. The best thing that you need to do is to accept if you are wrong and learn from your mistakes. Don’t allow that your mistakes to become your internal hatred as much as possible and forget all regrets you have in the past. If you do this, you can be sure that you can easily treat others with love and respect that they deserve.
Accept yourself
Before you can treat other with love and respect, you need to accept yourself in a form of recognizing your inner beauty as well as the way who you are. Your life will not be completely happy if you don’t accept yourself and appreciate your existence in the world. Life has a purpose; all you have to do is to determine the purpose of your life in order for you to protect your personal power effectively.
The useful suggestions on how to treat others with love and respect as well as the valuable factors to foresee the essence of life that are mentioned above will greatly help you to completely attain your personal power perfection and to protect your personal power by simply loving yourself unconditionally.
Excerpted from the book Protect your personal power.
This excerpt has been edited and condensed for clarity.
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